I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings

I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings


Hey there! Have you ever heard of male chastity devices? These things have been around for centuries and have taken on various roles throughout history. From preventing adultery in ancient Greece and Rome, to controlling male sexuality in medieval Europe, to becoming a fashion statement in the 19th century – these devices have certainly had an interesting journey.

But what about today? What's the deal with male chastity now? Well, in the BDSM community, they use these devices as a way to enhance their power dynamic and explore sexual boundaries. It's all about consensual use and the dominant partner controlling the sexual release of the submissive partner. So, if you're into BDSM, male chastity devices might be something you want to try out.

Now, before we go any further, it's important to note that non-consensual use of male chastity devices is a form of abuse. So, if you're not into it, that's totally fine! Everyone has different sexual preferences and that's what makes us unique.

But, for those who are into it, male chastity can be a healthy and enjoyable aspect of a sexual relationship. It's all about trust, communication, and exploring your sexuality with a partner you trust.

In conclusion, male chastity devices have come a long way throughout history and are now a part of the BDSM community. If you're interested in trying it out, make sure it's consensual and that you're with a partner you trust. And if you're not into it, that's totally cool too! Just remember, everyone has different sexual preferences and that's what makes us unique.


  1. Start with communication: Before you even think about trying out a male chastity device, it's important to have a conversation with your partner/keyholder about what you both want to get out of it. Discuss boundaries, expectations, and any concerns you may have. Don't be afraid to voice your opinions. 

  2. Choose the right device: There are many different types of male chastity devices on the market, so do your research and choose one that works best for you and your partner. Some devices are more comfortable than others, so make sure you find one that fits properly and won't cause any discomfort. My personal favorite is the Cobra Cages from Kink3D!

  3. Take it slow: Don't jump right into long-term chastity right away. Start with short periods of time and work your way up to longer periods. It's important to listen to your body and not push yourself too hard.

  4. Focus on other forms of intimacy: Just because you're not having intercourse doesn't mean you can't be intimate with your partner. Focus on other forms of intimacy, like kissing, cuddling, and oral sex.

  5. Practice hygiene: It's important to maintain good hygiene while wearing a male chastity device. Make sure to clean the device and the area around it regularly to prevent any infections or discomfort. 

  6. Moisturize before you put your cage back on. I use my LeatherDaddy Massage Oil to keep the cage from rubbing and it also allows the pee-holes to match up with ease. 

  7. Have a backup plan: While male chastity devices can be a lot of fun, it's important to have a backup plan in case of emergency. Make sure you and your partner know how to remove the device safely and quickly if necessary.

  8. Have fun with it!

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